The Mental Health Blog
There is Pain in Your DNA- Epigenetics and Trauma
It is the proteins running the show! Our cells are in constant communication with our environment. What we eat, who we are in relationship to, the kinds of energy we are around, our thoughts and perceptions- our cells take it all in.
Parenting My Teen- 4 Tips on staying out of the power struggle
Teens are so fun to work with in therapy! They are actually one of my favorite types of counseling clients. Although, raising teens can feel not so fun because the bigger they are the harder they are to control. Parenting should not center around power and control or...
I Can’t Trust My Teen-Help!
Our development centers around relationships. One function of those relationships is something called co-regulation which happens because of neuron in the human brain called mirror neurons. If you have a teen that is causing mischief, is overly clingy and generally doing some behaviors that don’t quite fit their stereotypical developmental stage get closer to them. The nearness to you will help them regulate themselves through your example.
STRESS- I should have listened
What gives me a false sense of accomplishment or autonomy that is really an imbalance?
How Your Skin and Your Psychology are Connected
Spending time sharing your experiences with other people dealing with chronic skin problems can also help, as it then feels more normal.
Sex Addiction- Therapy in St. Louis
It is understood that sex addiction like all addictions impacts the 3 – basic human functions including biology – psychology – mood/emotion.
Communication: It’s Not Just Talking
We all communicate in different ways- the spoken word isn’t the only way to communicate and just because you are talking, doesn’t mean that you are getting your message across.
One Thing Kanye is Right About: “Listen to the Kids Bro!”
Kids know things. Like a lot.
On The Other Side of COVID-19
I don’t know about you but I accept the challenge. I accept the challenge of learning how to sustain in unbelievable circumstances, the challenge of growth, and the challenge of just plain old life. There is no manual to this thing, but I know in times like these we wish there were. But look at the history.
Change Your Life- Find Comfort in Discomfort
Your child’s discomfort is okay and necessary! Tell them so as well. Set the expectation that it will pass as soon as they get used to xyz and when they leave the nest they will be more ready to take on the world. The best place to learn these lessons are in the comfort of a loving home.




